Tom... I don't know what to say other then I am sooooo sorry man.. if you need ANYTHING at all call me!! want to talk?? don't think twice about calling. I can not imagine what is going on in your head right now, I offer my deepest sorrow. Healing will be rough, but keep your chin up. Often times thing like this bring a bit of self reflecttion, look at yourself and smile at how much he has influnced you, how much you resemble him. Just know he is very proud of the young man he has helped mold you into, and being the great person you are is all he ever wanted wanted. You are an extention of him and his legacy, be proud of how he has helped you become everything he ever wanted.
I suggest going camping and fishing this weekend, with your daughter and no one else. Use the time to get away, clear your mind and come up with a plan to be the best dad you can be for your little girl. Use everything you learned from your dad to help you.
-Erin